Miss V Feels Very Strict When Having Intimate Relationships, What Is the Cause?

Why does Miss V still feel very tight when having sex? (Shutterstock)

Why does the female vagina feel tight even though it's foreplay?


Generally, muscle tissue in Miss V will relax when sexually aroused. This allows the erection to enter more easily during intercourse .

However, loosening Miss V during intercourse will not cause a large enough cavity. The inside of Miss V will return to its original form when finished having sex, based on Psychology Today.

If Miss V will relax or relax a little when having sex why do some women experience pain and feel 'too tight'?

There are actually several conditions, but two of them are when a woman is attracted to sex or she doesn't have enough warm-up time to allow Miss V's muscles to relax enough.

Most women need at least 30 minutes to warm up or foreplay . That's why relaxing sex is very important.

At these times a woman's sex organs will produce enough natural lubricants to make sexual intercourse comfortable.

In addition to the two reasons above, there are medical conditions that also affect the tightness of Miss V when having sex, which is experiencing hormonal changes and suffering from vaginismus, according to Womenshealthmag.com .

Illustration of a couple having sex or making love. (Shutterstock)

Experiencing hormonal changes

During menopause, a woman's body experiences a decrease in estrogen, which can cause dryness and thinning of Miss V's tissue, writes the Mayo Clinic .

As a result, women may feel a sensation of tightness or irritation during intercourse.

If this happens, doctors will usually recommend over-the-counter Miss V lubricants, prescription estrogen creams or hormone replacement therapy.

For some people, menopause is more than just lubrication. Sometimes postmenopausal women also experience slight atrophy which is literally getting narrower, ob-gyn said Susan Khalil, MD, director of sexual health for the Mount Sinai Health System.

"And if they don't connect at all, it can be very uncomfortable," said Dr. Khalil.

Having vaginismus

This is a condition when the muscles in Miss V contract unconsciously.

Muscle contractions make it painful whenever something is inserted into Miss V, even during the installation of a tampon.

Most of the time, someone who has vaginismus experiences it from the first time they try to penetrate. But it can also be felt at a later time.

The cause behind vaginismus may be psychological or due to emotional trauma.